• Rewatch: the Weighted Blanket of Today

    This year, I have been rewatching a slew of my favorite shows and it is lovely to be able to get wrapped up in the comfort of something so familiar. Read more

  • Saving the World

    As I prepare for the move, one of the most difficult things has been finding ways to clear out my home without contributing to waste. Ensuring that items don’t end up in the landfill. Reducing the harm caused by senseless waste in the world. I’ve been doing a lot of work to find organizations that Read more

  • To Be Perceived

    I wish I could hold onto every conception of myself. No one else ought to have the lingering thought of me. No one else should be able to conceive of me beyond the realm that I have allowed. To know that others can think of me outside of the bounds of our in-person interactions makes Read more

  • Softness: a Yearning

    18 years. Countless, often overlapping roles. Sleepless nights. Fatigue & despair. I ache and ache and ache. Young bones carrying a soul that feels broken. It makes no sense. Your 30s are when you’re supposed to have it together. All I feel is an incessant dread and anxiety that continues to consume me. I am Read more

  • Top Media

    Documenting the things I love to watch, in no particular order: Everything I love ends, which is distressing. Fortunately, we live in the age of streaming and I can (& have) re-watched over & over again. Coping mechanisms & all. There is certainly a commonality between all these shows, and one that illuminates more about Read more

  • Visa Turmoil

    PSA to all: double, triple, SEPTUPLE check the instructions. My hubris is that I gave a cursory glance over the visa application and necessary requirements and thought I had everything under control. To move to Spain, the most important part of what I should have done was start the FBI background check and Apostille & Read more

Soft. Growing. Loving


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