Dimples on the Edge

For the past year, I have been living on a sojourn around the world. Partially by choice, but mostly as a manner of maintaining my Schengen days for my visa. That 90/180 rule is a tough gal to wrangle. As a result, and as the unfortunate carrier of a uterus (unfortunate because I have no… Read more

There was a marked change in how I presented myself to the world in 2018. I started to feel the viselike grip of others’ perception of myself in a way that I allowed to smother me. Since then, I have become smaller and filtered out, a weaker version of who I was. Most people these… Read more

I love to hear my friend’s voices. It brings me such joy and delight to hear their inflections, their emotions, the swell of laughter as it bubbles up, the wistfulness or derision when discussing others. Now that I live overseas, such immense time can go by between calls. Lives become so wrapped up in the… Read more

I am taking a break, going celibate, practicing mindful abstinence Why? For the same reasons any else has ever done it. I have lost my way and the feeling of connection. A reset and focus on myself and what drives me will remind me of who I am. Bring me back to myself. Allow me… Read more

Only I really did. Working on building my own commitment and sustainability as I strive to achieve new things in my life. I am sitting in at a little airport café in Verona, Italy, wondering how life can feel so normal and inconsequential, while I am experiencing things that hundreds of millions of people may… Read more